Please, please help me. I am going through hell and in desperate need of some relationship or even divorce advice!! I am twenty-eight years old, married with a three-year-old daughter. For the past three years, my wife has avoided being sexual with me. It has slowly gone from having sex maybe twice a week to now, if I’m lucky, once a month. And even then, it’s not really having sex. It’s more like her saying, “Hurry up and get in here, and let’s do this before our child wakes up.” There is no foreplay. She doesn’t even kiss me. I’m the one who always is initiating any sort of affection.

I get completely angered, hurt, and resentful toward her because I can’t understand how she could be so cruel to me. I want to tell her, “If you don’t love me anymore, then we can split up and move on,” but we have a child together, and I don’t think that’s right or fair to our daughter. I don’t know if I need some specific relationship or divorce advice for men. I want to be there when my little girl wakes up in the morning and goes to bed at night. But I also don’t want to be with a woman who doesn’t want to be with me.